By Emily and Amelia Nagoski
딱히 새롭지는 않지만 힘든 상황에서 어떻게 해야할지 정리를 잘 해준다!
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Just because you’ve dealt with a stressor doesn’t mean you’ve dealt with the stress. And you don’t have to wait until all your stressors are dealt with before you deal with your stress. Which is to say, you don’t have to wait for the world to be better before you make your life better-and by making your life better, you make the world better.
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Wellness is not a state of being but a state of action. It is the freedom to move fluidly through the cyclical, oscillating experiences of being human.
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Human giver syndrome is the contagious false belief that you have a moral obligation to give every drop of your humanity-to others. Pay attention to how different it feels to interact with people who treat you with care and generosity, versus people who treat you as if they are entitled to whatever they want from you.
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Humans are not built to function autonomously; we are built to oscillate from connection to autonomy and back again. Connection with others is as necessary as food and water.
